I recently visited several area church's weekend gatherings - it was a valuable recon mission that allowed me to experience how other families operate, get new ideas, and recognize our areas of strength and weakness. As a result, I want to give out some KUDOS to various areas of our church teams and family. I don't want any of my comments to come across as critical, haughty, judgemental, etc. All of the churches I visited were much bigger than TFH and doing a great job. I would say that all of them are doing at least an A- job in their form and function. I was appreciative of the solid work they are doing. With that in mind, the KUDOS and comments I make from this point on are not meant to be critical, but intended to encourage a job well done in our House based on our value system.
KUDOS to the entire TFH Family for the enthusiasm (root word - full of God) in our gatherings. All of the services I was in were well presented, but there is something to be said about God's people plugging their cord into God's electrical outlet and experiencing some energy!!! I experienced 1) a gathering that was like attending a Student Drivers Ed class...more enthusiasm about what what happens after class than what's happening in class 2) a gathering where the crowd was excited to watch those on the platform do their thing and 3) a gathering where everything was so smooth and business like that it became very mechanical and task oriented.
None of this is critical, and much of it is admittedly preferential in regards to style. But our gatherings need to include meaning interaction with the God of the Universe that transcends the words on the screen or the presentation of a speaker, and when it happens, everyone in the room knows it. It needs to happen as we interact. It needs to happen when we worship. It needs to happen as we listen to and respond to the Word! I love that the enthusiasm for these things is sincere and visible in most of our gatherings. I love the audible praise, the ridiculously energetic clapping, the comments during the preaching. It is a sincere expression of your passion for the things of God, and it's infectious.
Much of that personality is attributable to years of hard work by Pastor Nathan, our worship team and those who lead our gatherings. You've been well educated and our leaders show up with game! Thank God for good leaders!
One area that we need to work on with our expression has to do with where and when we sit. In 2 of the 3 service I attended, people arrived early for a good seat and a genuine desire to sit in the front. It was as if it was General Admission at Qwest Field and people wanted to be near the action, so they got there early for the good seats. For whatever reason, many of us have decided that the back of the room is a better fit. We use all sorts of excuses like crying babies, bladder infections or an allergies to the pulpit, but it does become a family statement that I don't think we intend to make. If you have a baby, sit toward the front, but just near the isle. The extra two steps it takes to get out of the room won't make a different. We all celebrate with you that God has blessed you with a baby and that the one crying is not ours :-) If you are on a ministry team, don't sit in the back, sit toward the front but in the isle area. After all, the people who need the back seats the most are visitors, and they can't access them with you barricaded in them!!! Time to step it up and sit closer.
On the issue of time... its one of those things than some of us need to work on. All of us are late from time to time, but if you are consistently late, you are making a statement that you probably don't intend. Besides that, you've missed the opportunity to greet family members and guest for that key 15 minutes prior to the service. Make it your intention to be on location 10-15 minutes before we begin. iIt communicates enthusiasm... and I know that you are enthused!